Some months back I had been enjoying reading Roger B's blog, "There's Always Something", when in response to something Roger posted about his home in Arizona, I commented about Atlanta, my home.
Roger emailed me and said "Atlanta?--- Perhaps you know several friends of mine who now live in Atlanta. I went to Vanderbilt University with them."
He mentioned 4 people that he knew in his college years at Vanderbilt. As you know the Internet is filled with probably a million interesting people like Roger, a retired minister. The odds of my knowing someone he knew over 50 years ago are what? A million to one? Atlanta is a city of close to 5 million souls now. And the odds of my happening upon Roger's blog among the thousands of blogs are also astronomical.
When I read the names I could not believe my eyes. My husband and I know all those Roger mentioned. One of the three men, was the father of my daughter's first boyfriend. The other is a distant cousin and a friend who belongs to the same golf club as my husband. The third, a woman, is a dear friend along with her husband, who is also a member of the same golf club.
Well, I emailed Roger and told him the news and he was speechless. He remembered one of them, BSH as the "prettiest girl at Vandy. She sat next to him in German class.
Roger later married a pretty coed from Kentucky.
None of these four long ago friends of Roger's are computer literate and have no idea what a blog is so I had not called and mentioned this remarkable coincidence to them. I did not quite know how to explain to them the sequence of events that had led me to Roger and his "blog." Then one day recently my husband was having lunch at the golf club with three of them and he mentioned Roger and the remarkable coincidence. They remembered him fondly and even recalled that Roger was the president of their fraternity pledge class.
I emailed Roger and told him how delighted his friends were to hear from him and they sent their best wishes across the miles and the years.
I still marvel at this turn of events.
What a small, small world we live in. We are all connected one to the other in some unexplainable, cosmic way.
(Six degrees of separation is the hypothesis that anyone on Earth can be connected to any other person on the planet through a chain of acquaintances with no more than five intermediaries)
PS: click on Title above to travel to Roger's blog
9 comments:
Yes, quite a small world it was before the Internet. But I find that it has become smaller since the Internet.
My US friends seemed to be so far away. I remember when I stayed in Champaign-Urbana, Ill. for two years, I would write to my parents, and before I got a letter from them, it would be a couple of weeks. It made the distance even greater.
Nowadays, I have free phone so when I feel like it, I call my friends at work, or at home. They sound like they are in the next room...
That really is somethng Chancy. I'm sure you made Roger's day by delivering that news to him. The Internet...what a truly amazing place it is. I've had cousins I haven't seen in 25 years contact me after they've just happened to see my name somewhere...or Googled me, and found my blog. Just type it in...it's all just a few keys away...
Oh, that is a miracle, for sure. For the record, I was president of my pledge class, not the fraternity. During my sophomore year I fell in love with a coed from Kentucky and mysteriously disappeared into the wilds of the bluegrass state. The outcome is 56 years of marital bliss and 5 grown kids. Isn't life grand?
Roger
Thanks for the comment and correction Roger. I just gave you a promotion that's all.
Give my best to your "co-ed from Kentucky.
:) Life IS grand!
Roger Corrections made and added your comment about your dear Kentucky coed wife of 56 years .
That is incredible. I love stories like that!
Andrew
To Love, Honor and Dismay
Isn't that amazing. It's so great when something like that happens.
I recently shared emails from a blogger who lived one town away from me in Scotland. What great memories.
What a lovely story. Yes it really is a small, small world.
This is an amazing story. And yum yum, I like your banana bread recipe - but can't let myself make it (I'm always dieting!). ML of Full Fathom F.
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