My friend died Thursday afternoon.
Not in a sterile, beige hospital room
Surrounded with monitors and smells of disinfectant.
She died in her own bed
In her own room.
A room painted the warmest shade of coral
Which welcomed in the sunshine of a summer afternoon,
Surrounded by her bookcases filled with favorites.
"What are you reading"
She would often ask when we met.
"You really must read "Lamb In His Bosom" by Caroline Miller.
A true Southern classic"
She had told me.
And I did.
And now tomorrow her family will carry her urn of ashes
Up to the beloved, small mountain house by the lake.
She will finally be free
From the oxygen tubes,medicines,
And wheelchair.
She will glide gently across the still water
As her loved ones whisper,
Goodbye.
9 comments:
This is a lovely tribute to your friend, Chancy. I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard to say goodbye to those we love.
Thanks Colleen.
It was sad but she was in bad shape and had to have round the clock care. Her mind was still extremely sharp and she looked good the last time I saw her about 4 weeks ago. I went by her home and took her a pretty plant, a multicolored rose.
As we talked about family and old times and this and that, I remarked on the lovely coral color of her bedroom.
She said:
"I love this room"
That is one reason why I was so glad she died in her own room at home.
My condolences on the loss of your friend. Your description of her last days was exceptionally poignant. She was fortunate to have had you as a friend.
Aw...that was so sweet Chancy. A lovely tribute....
I'm very sorry for the loss of your friend sweetie....a hard thing at any time.
That's an excellent way to go, Chancy. I am sorry for your loss. I hope I can go that way; at home in my beloved room (hydrangea green).
I'm so sorry about your friend, Chancy. But if it must be, so much better at home.
Beautiful remembrance you've written.
So beautiful - thank you for posting this Chancy - sorry for the loss of your friend. None of us can ask for more than to pass in our own bed with our loved ones present.
Sorry for the loss of your friend. Your tribute to her was very nice. So many pleasant memories you have.
I am sorry to read about the loss of your friend. These transitions are so persistent at this time in our lives. I wish you peace.
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